try blood and oil map then

Then obviously you haven't built massive armies faster than you expanded, congrats, I can't say the same is true for me all the time. I mean mostly it is, and I'm filling up swimming pools with fuel by end game, but I've had a few where fuel was tight due to massive armies all in motion.

I think I had a fuel problem once . It had something to do with missiles I think.

If you for example build a lot of air fields and air ports or building like high level army bases, you will need a lot of fuel.

There are normally 2 times, where fuel might be scarce: early days when you build the basis for your production facilities, dann mid to late game when you switch from pure army production to also evolving your economy

Though most players tend to never switch to last part, only relying on expansion to cover the rising needs of their forces.
Which might prove to be a not as reliable tactic as soon a map is not riddled with the corpses of countless inactive noname players.

Thinking about it, it might also be caused by the high attrition rates of the typical player. If you lose troops all the time, your upkeep will never drain your silos of course, because it hardly grows from the start.

excatly how say Kalrakh big army or uprage industry in latte game

and blood and oil havent problem with fuel it just about look like fuel by there problem but isnt ...

Apart from the specific fuel resource reasons...
Sabotage.

A city that only has an arms industry 1 is far more enticing to sabotage.
To damage an arms industry 1 is to stop production of most units.
Building an arms industry 2 gives you some protection even if you don't need the resource.